The tyranny of the ‘should’: Should I have a baby as an LGBTQ woman?

The tyranny of the ‘should’: Should I have a baby as an LGBTQ woman?

  There is an element of fear when it comes to being a part of the LGBTQ community.   As a young woman, I always wanted a family.   When I joined the USAF in 2000, this went from a ‘want’ to a ‘should.’ Unfortunately, this was during the time of “don’t ask, don’t tell.”   Meeting …